Fisting. One of our favorite activities. There is nothing like the power that comes with fitting my entire fist into baby girl’s cunt. Although, there is no way that she can take my fist every day, or even most days. We have to work up to it - one finger at a time, when she’s unbelievably wet and horny. Even then, sometimes it’s a no go, but when it happens, there’s just nothing like it. She has the most intense orgasms that I’ve ever seen.
One thing we haven’t experimented much with is positions…
Has your Dominance increased or decreased over time? Have you ever had to renegotiate with your submissive due to a change in feelings or circumstance? Have your interests as a Dominant expanded or contracted over time?
This is definitely one of the more timely / eye opening questions that I’ve come across since taking a second look at this list.
My girl and I have gone through so many major changes in the last year. Nearly a year ago, my girl made a trans-pacific move to live with me. That saw huge changes. Trying to translate a D/s relationship that existed over the internet machine, phone, text, and skype exchanges, into real life was a challenge, to say the least. Negotiating how all of those things we managed and worked on from 13,000 miles apart translated to everyday life together was tough. We essentially had to rebuild our relationship in a lot of respects. That sounds somewhat negative, but it really wasn’t. It’s just working to reestablish boundaries and to experience and allow our D/s relationship play out in real life, all of which takes time and work. When you mix in all the other moving pieces - jobs, family life, household needs, and all sorts of other commitments, it becomes even more challenging to make time and continue working on our D/s relationship.
I would say that we’re a huge work in progress. This summer was our busiest period ever as a couple. Life was incredibly hectic. As business owners, our peak period occurred over 6 months, late spring to early fall. We both worked seven days a week, 60 or more hours a week. We were also planning a wedding, that while small in size, was not small in planning or price. Life was just exhausting. It was during that time, that our D/s relationship suffered dramatically. Why? We didn’t make our relationship a priority. It was our first ‘busy’ season where we were learning what our life together was like and how to handle the busy-ness of life while taking care of all of our other responsibilities. I don’t blame us. We didn’t really know what to expect and we fell into bed most nights completely exhausted with our minds spinning about what the next day might bring. I do think we learned a lot and will hopefully find ourselves better prepared next year.
So where does that leave us? I think we’ve gone through large periods of time where we’ve felt a little disconnected or discontent, due to circumstances. Life has started to slow down and we’re picking up the pieces of our somewhat dormant D/s relationship. We’re reconnecting. We’re communicating. I think as time passes, we will continue to work and rebuild what it is that we seek together. I’m convinced that power exchange will always have a place in our relationship, but I do believe that it will always be in a state of flux, constantly adjusting and renegotiating our needs and wants.
A well placed hand, whether in your mouth, on your throat, or gripping your nipple in the most uncomfortable way, serves to remind you that it’s not all about pleasure.
Mixing pleasure with ownership and control is one of my favorite things.
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I absolutely love to do this while kissing daddy. Sliding her panties down is my favourite thing in the world.
Your baby girl.
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Baby girl consistently remarks that she’s probably the most spoiled baby girl when it comes to sex. I devour her wet cunt as often as possible. She has the most delicious mound that is never more home than when it is in my mouth.
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Day 19 - How socially connected are you as a Dominant? Do you look for others to talk to about your Dominance either for support, learning, educating or networking? Do you go to events or connect through another sort of social grouping either in person or online?
First of all, it’s been an exceptionally long time since I’ve answered one of these. More than a year. Seeing as I’ve never finished the list, I figure it’s due time to come back and start answering these.
As for the question, in the early days, I definitely did more networking than I do now. Now I do almost none, except for what I witness in my tumblr feeder. While tumblr can be a great resource, it’s not the kind of resource where you can dig and find what it is you’re seeking, It’s just a mess of stuff, with some real good bits hidden that are gone quickly (buried under other stuff).
In the beginning, I’d say that I definitely leaned on specific forums at fetlife in order to grown, learn and engage with others that had similar desires and interests. I probably need to do more of that to get back to my roots. I do have a friend that lives afar in a similar lifestyles and occasionally we chat about it, but it’s not often enough for my liking.
We don’t live in an area where events are a possibility. Sometimes I wish they were, but I’m not entirely convinced I’d go if there were some that happened nearby. Yet, there’s a huge part of me that wants to believe that when my girl and I travel, if there were classes or events that occurred in the city we were visiting, that we would make time to participate. One of these days!
It’s always amazing to see on of our own pictures making the rounds again. Seeing as it’s been reblogged a number of times today, I figured I too should re-share the awesome. Baby girl’s delicious cunt & plugged bum. Yum.
I love pegs. Do you?
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Last night, as I was trying to go to sleep, I was thinking of all of the things about our relationship that we’ve eased up on. Plugging is one of them. The truth is, I really miss it.
It’s one of many things I’ve missed as of late.
Seriously. Where does one find a vast array of dildos online? Where is your favorite sex toy shopping place? TELL ME ALL OF THEM! ;)
We’re looking to add to our collection for strap on use and the sites I typically hit just aren’t giving me the collection I’m seeking. Ideas?